Till The Wheels Fall Off
Till The Wheels Fall Off (TWFO) podcast is hosted by Matt and Paige Robinson. TWFO focuses primarily on the relationship dynamics between spouses and partners of alcoholics or addicts and ways to best navigate the difficulties of codependent, addicted, unstable, and narcissistic behavior. The program is enjoyable and informative for anyone seeking self-betterment, inspiration, perspective, or direction with themes ranging from boundaries, recovery, marriage, and parenting with tons of humor built in. With over twenty years of experience in codependency recovery, addiction recovery, mental health battles, and navigating life's hurdles, the duo offers a valuable and unique perspective that is both inspiring and relatable.
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Episodes
191 episodes
Paige's Perspective: Behavior Over Bullsh*t: Stop Blaming the Label
In this episode of Paige’s Perspective, we’re cutting through the noise and getting back to the basics — because somewhere along the way, we started overcomplicating what’s right in front of us.Addiction. Trauma. ADHD. Nervous s...
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Painful but Necessary: How Natural Consequences Spark Real Change
In this powerful episode of Till the Wheels Fall Off, we dive deep into one of the most misunderstood concepts in recovery and relationships: natural consequences. We unpack the difference between allowing natural consequences v...
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Paige's Perspective: You’re Not Overreacting: The Truth About DARVO
This week on Paige’s Perspective, we’re digging into DARVO—the manipulative pattern people use to avoid accountability by flipping the script and making you question your reality. You’ll learn what DARVO looks like, why it happens, and...
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The Truth That Changed Everything: What Finally Made Me Get Sober
Matt sits down for an unfiltered, no-holds-barred conversation about the moment everything changed - the exact point he knew he couldn’t lie one more time, couldn’t hide one more day, and had to choose either transformation or destruction. Paig...
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Paige's Perspective: When 'It’s Not That Bad' Is Still Too Bad
You’ve said it. Maybe weekly. “He’s just stressed.” “He only acts like this when he’s drinking.” “That's just how they were raised.”But here’s the truth: just because you’ve gotten used to it… doesn’t mean it’s...
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How to Bounce Back: Mistakes, Shame, and Second Chances
We all screw up, but how you respond to a mistake says way more about you than the mistake itself. In this episode, we have a raw, honest conversation about emotional regulation, accountability, and how to bounce back after you’ve messed up. Wh...
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Paige's Perspective: Self-Love Isn’t Soft - Why It Scares You and How to Do It Anyway
Do you ever feel afraid to love yourself? You’re not alone—and you’re not broken. In this episode, Paige gets real about the fear, discomfort, and confusion that often comes with the concept of self-love. She unpacks why loving yourself ...
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Clapping Back is Still Looking Back: Why Petty Feuds Keep You Tied to the Pain
Revenge might feel good for a moment—but what does it really get you? In this raw and hilarious episode of Till the Wheels Fall Off, we unpack the difference between being petty and being powerful. From glitter b...
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Paige's Perspective: Social Media Is Loud, But You Don’t Have to Be Lost in It
In this episode, Paige gets real about the toll social media can take on our nervous systems, identity, and sense of reality. Inspired by a quote—“Normal is 7 hours of screen time a day”—she opens up about why she’s taking a step back, how soci...
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High Agency, Part Two: Navigating the Traps That Keep You Stuck
In Part Two of our High Agency series, Matt and Paige dive even deeper into what it really means to live a high agency life—and what gets in the way.We unpack the traps that keep people stuck: the vague trap, the midwit trap, th...
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Paige's Perspective: Life Is a Sh*t Show—Even If, You'll Be Okay
“What if they relapse?” “What if I mess up?” “What if everything falls apart?” If those questions live rent-free in your mind, this episode is for you. I’ll show you how one simple shift—from “What if” to “Even if”—can change the way you cope w...
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High Agency, Part One: Reclaiming Your Power When Life Feels Out of Control
In this solo episode, Matt breaks down the core beliefs that define high agency—an empowering mindset rooted in action, clarity, and personal responsibility. Inspired by George Mack’s High Agency essay, Matt explores five foundational ...
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Paige's Perspective: The Discomfort of Silence
If silence makes you restless, anxious, or uneasy, you’re not alone. For many, silence isn’t peaceful. The second things get quiet, all the thoughts, emotions, and fears we’ve been avoiding start creeping in. And if you’ve been living in surviv...
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Stop Thinking, Start Doing: Why Common Sense Beats Over-Analysis
Has common sense officially left the building? In this unapologetically real episode, we dive into why people are more confused than ever despite having access to endless information. From the rise of pop psychology trends and over-pathologizin...
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Paige's Perspective: Fear of Rejection - Why It Feels So Big After Loving an Addict
If you’ve loved someone struggling with addiction—whether you’re still in the relationship or you’ve left—the fear of rejection can feel overwhelming. It’s not just about someone saying “no,” it feels personal. It feels like proof that you were...
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Find Your Tribe: Why Community Changes Everything
We get it—healing feels like something you have to do alone. But what if that’s exactly what’s keeping you stuck? In this episode, we’re breaking down why community isn’t just helpful—it’s essential. We saw it firsthand this past weekend, and w...
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Paige's Perspective: Breaking Free from Irrational Anxiety
Do you feel like you're constantly battling anxiety, even when there’s no real threat? In this episode of Paige’s Perspective, we’re diving into irrational anxiety—when fear and worry take over your mind despite the lack of actu...
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Stop Waiting to Feel Ready: Why Action Beats Emotion Every Time
Are your feelings keeping you stuck? Whether you’re a spouse of an addict waiting for them to change, someone considering divorce but trapped by fear, struggling with weight loss, or trying to build a better career or life—you might be making o...
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Paige's Perspective: Feel the Feels… But Don’t Feed Them
Are your emotions guiding you or controlling you? In this episode of Paige’s Perspective, we break down the difference between feeling your emotions and being ruled by them.You’ve heard us say “Feel the Feels,”...
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The Power of Feeling Seen in Relationships: Feeling Known > Knowing
What makes a great relationship? Is it knowing everything about your partner, or is it feeling truly known by them? In this episode of Till the Wheels Fall Off, we dig deep into what it means to be seen, heard, and understood in our cl...
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Paige's Perspective: Everyone’s Journey Is Different... But Is It?
In this episode of Paige’s Perspective, Paige challenges the popular idea that “everyone’s journey is different.” While our circumstances might vary, the emotional struggles we face—grief, betrayal, fear, loneliness—are univer...
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20:28
The Fine Line Between Support and Emotional Burden
As parents, we want to raise strong, resilient kids—but sometimes, without realizing it, we lean on them in ways that can be damaging. In this episode, we’re tackling the tough but crucial topic of parentification, enmeshment, and emotional ...
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1:18:28
Paige's Perspective: Are We Living by Old Rules That No Longer Apply?
In this episode of Paige’s Perspective, we’re diving into why so many women struggle with people-pleasing, caretaking, and suppressing their needs—and the truth about where these behaviors actually come from. Spoiler alert: y...
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This Stops With You: How to Break Generational Cycles & Rewire Your Life
Breaking free from generational cycles isn't just about addiction—it’s about rewiring everything you were conditioned to believe: how you communicate, how you cope, how you parent, and how you love. In this episode, we dive deep into what it re...
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Paige's Perspective: The Truth About Judgment – Why It’s Necessary and Where the Line Is
In this episode of Paige’s Perspective, we’re breaking down the truth about judgment—why it’s not the problem, but ignoring your instincts is. Society tells you that being judgmental is wrong, that you should always give the benefit of...
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